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Opening Up – The Power of Understanding Emotions

Updated: Nov 8

Ever feel that your emotions are some intricately interwoven ball of yarn, and you have no idea where to start unwinding? Think again. In fact, trying to express or even understand one's emotions is often a mazy state; it is one journey worth a walk, though.


Why Opening Up Is Difficult


We live in a world that does so much to tell us to "keep it together." But bottling up emotions is like shaking a soda can; sooner or later, it will, most likely, explode. The fear of judgement, misunderstanding, and weakness may make this tough to express what we truly feel. But the thing is, to express emotions doesn't make us weak; it makes us human.


Put this into perspective: It is as if one had to walk around the whole day with a heavy backpack on his or her back. Unexpressed emotions feel like a burden that weighs you down and slows you down. You open up and take that backpack off. You feel lighter, more relaxed, ready to take on what's ahead. What is more? the expression of emotions may deepen relationships, and improve mental health, and even physical health. Your heart will, quite literally, thank you! 


The Key to Self-Awareness


One has to understand his or her emotions before being able to express them. Think of these emotions as signals of the body and mind, like the traffic lights leading you through life. Anger may be a sign telling you that something is not right, while at the same time, joy signals that you are on course. The more you understand the meaning of these signals, the more effectively you'll be able to travel in your emotional landscape.


Practical Tips to Start Opening Up


  • Start Small: You do not have to let out all your deep secrets right from the start. Begin by sharing feelings about small, everyday things. For example, instead of saying, "I'm fine," when someone asks how you are, try, "I'm a bit stressed today, but I'm managing."

  • “I” Statements: These will help in expressing emotions without sounding accusatory. Instead of saying, "You never listen to me," say, "I feel unheard when I talk about my day."

  • Write It Out: If speaking out loud feels too daunting, start by writing in a journal about your feelings. Writing can often help process what you are feeling and make it easier to talk about later.

  • Practice with a Trusted Friend: Select someone with whom you feel safe, and practice revealing your emotions to. It can be as basic as saying, "I'm feeling a bit nervous about that meeting tomorrow."

  • Seek Professional Help where Necessary: Sometimes, emotions can be overwhelming. If it's hard to handle, then a therapist will be able to give you the tools and support necessary.


Of course, opening up about your feelings is never quite easy, but it remains one of the most empowering things you could ever do for yourself. Remember, it's okay to feel, it's okay to show, and it's okay to ask for help. After all, we're just trying to make sense out of our tangled yarn, one thread at a time.


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